Chronic Illness Warrior, Your Value is Intrinsic

Chronic Illness Warrior, Your Value is Intrinsic

“So . . . I’m not offering any value in this relationship right now?” My insecurity was laid bare before my friend.   “It isn’t about offering value! You HAVE value. You are VALUABLE. I don’t give a rip what you think you can or can’t add to our friendship,...
Vulnerability Does Not Equal Complaining

Vulnerability Does Not Equal Complaining

“How are you?” she asks me as we walk.   “I’m doing better than last night.” I pull my scarf up further. “I kinda hit a wall and I still don’t feel great, but I’m hanging in there. How are you?”   She shrugs. “I’m not a complainer.”    I bristle. At...